There are few things you only have to say once in life. When I got down on one knee and asked my future wife to marry me, I didn’t have to repeat myself. I only had to give my mom’s eulogy once. When my wife asked the gender of our 3rd child, I only had to tell her it was a boy once – after that, she knew.
One thing we have to profess over and over again is our love for those whom we love. When we really love someone “having” to say I love you, isn’t a burden. Sometimes we can’t help ourselves. My 13 yo daughter wishes I could refrain, but most days, I can’t help but tell her how much I love and appreciate her.
In the gospel, Jesus asks Peter three times if Peter loves him. If you read carefully you can almost hear Peter’s frustration when Jesus asks the third time. Why does Jesus do this? Peter denies Jesus three times, and this is his trifold moment of reconciliation and restoration. In another sense I think Jesus asks three times and Peter responds three times because telling someone we love them isn’t something we just do once. We have to do it again and again.
Interestingly enough, faith in God and trust in Jesus Christ isn’t something we just profess once, but something that we have to say over and over again. Why? Because faith in God and trust in Jesus is accepting and returning God’s love. Faith isn’t something we can just choose once, but something we have to choose each and every day.
Maybe we have a moment, a story, when we, for the first time, seriously chose to make Jesus number one in our lives. The reality is that even if we have a first moment when we fell in love with the Lord, it wasn’t the last time we felt love for God.
Why do we say the same words each week at Mass? Because these words are like saying, “I love you” over and over again to God. And more importantly, the words of the Mass is God saying to us, “I love you.” If you like hearing that you are loved, if you want to express to God that you do in fact love him, this is something we must do again and again. The best moment we do that each week is at Mass.
Live It: Go to Mass this Weekend and when the Priest elevates the Eucharist whisper (or say in your head), “I love you, Jesus.”